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A New Review of Going Over the Edge?
I was particularly impressed about how supportive it was of NT's living in these types of relationships. For example, Shatyermman writes, "The author reveals in a sensitive and emotional manner, the encounters and endeavors women (and few men) are faced with while living in a world where spontaneity, empathy and social cues rarely appear."
The book review concludes with this statement, "This is an exceptional book which sheds light on a population often left out of the focus of treatment and in need of further exploration vis-a-vis issues they encounter as well as the possible ways to deal with those."
Please click here to view the book review in its entirety.
Partners & Family of Adults with Asperger Syndrome - Spread The Word

I continue to hear from many who wish that there were more avenues to spread the word about relationships with loved ones who have Asperger’s. I have also felt this way which prompted me to write my book, "Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome: Going Over the Edge?" I recognize that many are unable to write a book to express their thoughts and feelings on the subject, but there are other ways to share.
There has been an amazing response after establishing the Asperger Syndrome: Partners & Family of Adults with ASD support group. The Meetup.com message board has become a place for many around the world, not just in the Portland area, to come and share their thoughts, stories, and essays. One particular article stirred up over 200 views. I would like to continue encouraging you to use this incredible resource to spread the word about ASD relationships.
Slowly but surely this topic is getting more attention. Take a look at a recent book review on "Going Over the Edge?" on About.com - http://learningdisabilities.
Going Over the Edge? is Going Worldwide
For Europeans, Eurospan Bookstore has made Going Over the Edge? available for purchase on their website. The website includes the book forward by Stephen Shore, the introduction, the first three chapters, and the front and back cover.
If you live in India, Flipkart.com has added my book to their inventory. They ship throughout India, but you must pay in rupees.
I have added these links to the Asperger Syndrome Recommended Links on my website for future reference. I will continue to keep you posted on any more exciting updates!
Dating, Love, and Asperger Syndrome
First and foremost, it is important that you are very familiar with Asperger Syndrome and the type of issues your child will face in social situations. By understanding what is happening to them, you will be able to identify opportunities that you can use to teach and train them to interact with others. Encourage social activities and talk to them about how they can connect with people.
For more suggestions, I recommend Dating, Marriage & Autism by Stephen Shore. I appreciate Stephen's expertise both as a professional and as a person with Asperger Syndrome himself. Stephen was kind enough to write the forward to my book about adult Asperger relations, Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome: Going Over the Edge?.
Take the time for your child now. Yes, there will be struggles in his or her life, but with support and guidance it is possible for them to grow up and love.
Help Your Child Cope with Their Asperger Sibling
Tips to Experiencing Happiness on a Daily Basis
Happiness…we all want it, but it sure is hard to find sometimes. Some even call happiness elusive. Maybe, however, we are just not looking at the problem from the right perspective. Could it be that we are happy but just don’t know it?
Research is now discovering (yes, they had to do a study to find this out) that most people are so focused on their future, the “big picture”, that they are often blinded to small moments of happiness, such as the goodness in kind things that people are doing for them, as well as the beauty that surrounds them right outside their window. It is an easy pitfall for entrepreneurs who seem naturally to look at the “big picture” in order to move forward with their goals.Here are some suggestions to help experience happiness on a daily basis:
- Focus on small moments during the day that give pleasure
- Cultivate positive emotions
- Build resources that help you rebound
- Be open and flexible
- Savor the good, regardless of how small it may seem
As one practices these suggestions in their lives, they will discover that their overall mood is elevated and there is more resilience to negative events. In turn, such appreciation for small moments will enhance our “big picture” by promoting success in jobs, relationships, and even health outcomes. It seems that happiness isn’t all that hard to find after all.
For more information, access the study in the journal Emotion, or read the book written by Barbara Fredrickson, the lead author of the study, entitled Positivity: Groundbreaking Research Reveals How to Embrace the Hidden Strength of Positive Emotions, Overcome Negativity and Thrive, published by Crown Publishing, 2009.
Interview About Asperger’s Relationships on Portland's KXL News Radio
Is Stress on the Rise for Parents with Autistic Children?
Speaking about Asperger Syndrome for AAPC
Scheduled Television Appearance on June 16, 2009
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- Surviving Unremitting Grief While Keeping a Tough Relationship Together
- No More Power Struggles in Your ASD/NT Relationship – Is It Possible?
- Should the Placebo Affect Have a Place in Conventional Medicine?
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